Navigating the world of sex toys can be difficult for anyone, regardless of how they identify. However, transgender folks can find this whole process very daunting, especially for anyone who has or still is experiencing body dysphoria. Trying to figure out how to enjoy sex whilst discovering your true self can be a challenging process to go through.
Anyone who has recently gone through gender-affirming surgery or is on hormone replacement therapy are still getting used to the new body they are creating, so finding new ways to pleasure yourself or having sex can be challenging for some, so we are here to help!
Sex Toys for Transgender People
We have come up with ten different toys that promote an exciting sex or masturbation lifestyle and celebrate you and your body however you want to be pleasured.
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Get ready to feel like one lucky man with this stretchy stroker! Perfect for any of our lovely trans men out there. For anyone on Hormone Replacement Therapy and experiencing growth, this toy is for you. The cleverly textured inside of the stroker will give your privates the tingling you have been craving.
You can position this chamber however you wish, which will make you feel comfortable throughout as that is the most important thing. Make sure to use water-based lubricant so that it remains nice and enjoyable throughout.
Now we know that vibrators can be intimidating, especially for anyone with genital dysphoria, but vibrators don’t have to be used on your intimate areas. This Bullet Vibrator will give you the power to tease and play with yourself or your lover’s many other erogenous zones such as the neck, lips, toes, chest and nipples – but be careful with your nips if you are on HRT as they can become super sensitive!
This vibrator has non-intimidating features; for example, if a penis shape makes you uneasy, this bullet has a lipstick shaped head instead so that you can use it anywhere on your body. With up to 4 different speeds and seven alternating patterns, you have many other options for pleasure.
If you have just had a vaginoplasty, this set is perfect for you. You can feel pretty tight and sore afterwards, but dilating is essential to get the sensations you are looking for whilst also being patient with your body. The five-piece dilator set comes with smooth silicone dildos of varying sizes that are easy to insert and take out with its finger loop attached.
Make sure to use the dilators that your doctor give you, but if you are looking for something a bit different or a little more fashionable, these are an excellent option for you and your body!
If penetrative pleasure is something you or you and your partner are okay with but don’t want anything too intrusive, this Curved Finger Vibrator is a great in between! The slim, soft design makes insertion easy, and with the flexible vibrating head, you can explore different angles and find the right spot for you.
Great for beginner sex toy users, this is one of the least intimidating toys you can use that will still give you all of the pleasure you are looking for!
Opinions are like buttholes, everyone has one, and that’s why in our opinion, this Mantric Prostate is the perfect toy for our transgender lovelies! Even if you are experiencing body dysmorphia, you can still enjoy sex or masturbation without touching your front parts and instead tickle and tease with anal play instead.
The curved, silicone vibrator is flared and textured with multiple speeds and vibrations to massage your anus however you see fit! With a bulbous base, you can tease your perineum for an extra thrill without feeling uncomfortable, and with a wireless remote, you can have your lover get involved in how much pleasure you are getting.
For a lot of transgender people that haven’t had gender-affirming surgery, it can be challenging to be comfortable having sex without any underwear on. With this We-Vibe Moxie Underwear Vibrator, you can enjoy all of the sensations in your erogenous zones, either inside or outside your underwear.
The small, slim, silicone design is created so that you can experience various whisper-quiet vibrations and speeds that can be slipped inside your underwear or can be placed against them to release incredible sensations throughout your body. It is controlled by an app too, so you and your long-distance lover can enjoy managing each other’s pleasure even from overseas.
Having a toy that can flex to your body and what you are looking for is ideal for the trans-community as this toy supports your post or pre-penises or vaginas and elevates your orgasms whether you use this with your lover or alone.
With bendy arms, you can twist, turn and shape this toy around any part of your body or genitals with ease and with up to ten vibration functions, any nerve ending won’t be safe from ultimate pleasure. With a small shaft at the top, if you want to experiment with insertion play, whether that’s vaginal or anal, you can be buzzed wherever you choose.
Although these toys are typically aimed at cis-gendered females, don’t miss out on experiencing these suction toys regardless of your gender. The Suction Stimulator is designed to tease and pull gently on all of your erogenous zones from your neck, nipples, or anus. Suction toys are actually perfect for the trans community because whether you have body dysmorphia or not, you can have exciting foreplay without feeling uncomfortable.
With up to twelve different vibration modes and two alternate stimulation heads on top of the suction, you can have your body in overdrive as you get teased to oblivion. The Smart Silent technology means if you’re looking for some kinky public fun, this toy is perfect for that too!
If you are a trans-male looking to pleasure your lover, strap on harnesses are the perfect way to have incredible sex. With the realistic veins and shaft textures, you can rub against your lover’s vagina or anus with that authentic penis feel. The soft harness also promotes comfort and safe sex as you can adjust the straps to your body regardless of shape or size.
Also, with the changeable penis holder, you can swap out to different types of dildos from vibrating or a slim, non-textured design if the realistic-looking dildos are too gendered for you. These strap ons are designed around you and help you give out the best orgasms!
Fingering is something everyone can enjoy regardless of their gender or sex. Whether that’s anal or vaginal fingering, you can stimulate thousands of nerve endings from the tips of your fingers; it’s a superpower, really! But what if you want to upgrade your fingering game?
This Excite Finger Vibrator is perfect for those looking for an extra buzz. With up to 10 functions, you can tease or enthral your lover into orgasmic hysteria. It is angled to tickle your anus or vagina exactly how you want, great for couple play or to upgrade your masturbation.
Final Thoughts
These toys promote a healthy and exciting sex life no matter how you identify, and these are just some options to help you experience sex or foreplay however you want! The diversity of sex toys is becoming more inclusive, but we understand there is a long way to go in terms of creating toys for all kinds of folks.
Still, with sex toys for transgender people like these and blogs like this promoting and normalising sex toys for the trans community and the rest of the LGBTQIA+ community, we will get there one day!
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