No matter your sex, gender or sexual orientation, oral sex is pretty much accessible to anyone if it is something you are comfortable with. Oral sex can be extremely enjoyable and will have anybody rolling around in waves of pleasure.
Top Oral Sex Moves
It is probably one of the more straightforward sex moves to get right, but there are always ways to elevate your oral game! So here are some Top Five Tips on tricks to help you be on your orgasmic way!
Grind On Down!
Now we all know how amazing it is when you are receiving to close your eyes, lay back and barely move as you are pleasured in blissful serenity. Although that is a perfectly acceptable way to receive oral sex, have you ever thought about grinding?
A little pelvic action in different motions, whether that’s up and down or in a circular motion, whatever gets your heart racing is a fantastic way to reach an even more intense orgasm and for an added thrill, with their consent, of course. Gently grab hold of your lover’s head as they pleasure you and either position them where you want them or push them further into your groin to thrust into or against their mouth!
Legs Up, Booty Out!
It doesn’t matter what is between those beautiful legs; you can fully immerse yourself in this stimulating oral sex position. All you have to do is, as the receiver, lay onto your back and bend your knees, lifting them towards your chest.
If it is more comfortable, either hold your own legs with your arms behind your knees or get your lover to hold them up for you, so your booty and everything else is amazingly exposed to your partner’s eyes and mouth, ready to be devoured!
Sit Back & Enjoy!
Who says you have to be lying down to receive? That’s so archaic and not what we are about! Although it does feel amazing, you might want to be feeling a bit more empowered. So how about you take a seat. Yes, literally. Take a seat on your lover’s face, whether hovering above them or full-blown facesitting, let your lover know you are in charge of your own pleasure!
With you on their face, you can decide how much pressure you want, where you want their mouth to be, and you can fully control when you have your orgasm. This position is excellent no matter your sex; as long as you have consent and go easy on your lover, you both will have a delightful time.
Tasty Lube!
Lubricant doesn’t have just to be used practically. There are many different lubes out there that will allow you to have the most fantastic oral sex. Whether that is to make you wetter than Niagra Falls or have you tasting like a strawberry tart, there is something for everyone.
There are also lubes that can spice things up in the oral department. For example, a mint flavoured lube can make your areas tingle with delight, adding a much-needed tingle to your downstairs region!
Somebody Get the Toys Out!
There is a point with every oral sex experience where your tongue starts to go numb, or your gag reflex is just not playing ball (pun intended), and you want to give the best oral sex your lover has ever had, but your body is just letting you down.
Well, worry no more! As the giver, you have an arsenal of sex toys at the ready! You have tingling ones, penetrative ones, butt ones, clit ones, cock ones, ball ones and everything in between! Don’t be afraid to use a toy to help your partner achieve the orgasm they deserve because sometimes we all need a little help.
Open Wide!
Well, we hope these tips and tricks to adding a little more spice to your oral sex has helped. Remember, though, to always ask for consent and get ready to give your partner an oral orgasm, never to forget!
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